Know Good Men: Rick Rubin
Welcome to Know Good Men, a series created to share the stories, values, and wisdom of extraordinary men. Each episode dives into the journey of a man who defied the odds, carved his own path, and embodies what it means to be a man. In a world that needs strong men and leaders more than ever, these stories serve as an example of what's possible when courage, honor, and integrity take the lead.
He can't play an instrument, but he changed music forever.
Rick Rubin was 19, living in a crappy NYU dorm room, when he borrowed five grand from his parents to start a record label. His friends thought he'd lost his mind. His professors probably figured he was throwing away his future.
But Rick saw something nobody else did.
While the music industry was drowning in overproduced hype, Rick was asking one simple question: "What if we just let the music be music?"
That question built an empire.
From that cramped dorm room, Rick launched Def Jam Records and basically invented modern hip-hop. LL Cool J, Beastie Boys, Run-DMC, Public Enemy — these weren't just artists. They were revolutions, and Rick was the guy who lit the fuse.
But, Rick didn't stop at hip-hop. The man's been all over the map — metal legends like Metallica and Slayer, rock icons like Red Hot Chili Peppers, even bringing Johnny Cash back from the dead, career-wise.
Eight Grammys. Time Magazine's most influential people list. Worth $250 million.
But none of that tells you who Rick really is.
When Johnny Cash was washed up — literally dropped by his record label because nobody gave a damn about country music anymore — Rick saw something different. He didn't see an old cowboy past his prime. He saw a man with stories that could break your heart.
Their first album together, "American Recordings," was just Cash and his guitar. No backing band. No studio tricks. Just the man.
It won a Grammy and gave Cash the greatest comeback in music history. That cover of "Hurt" by Nine Inch Nails? The one that makes grown men cry? That was Rick seeing past the surface to something real.
Here's Rick's secret, and it's a bit odd since its coming from a guy who's worked with the biggest names in music: Meditation
He's been meditating since 14.
Not because he was some hippie kid. Because his neck hurt from stress, and his doctor told him to learn how to chill out. So Rick learned transcendental meditation, and it changed everything.
While other producers are screaming at artists, throwing tantrums, ego-tripping all over the studio, Rick just sits there. Calm as hell. Listening.
"The more honest and vulnerable you are, the more interesting your work will be."
That's not some fortune cookie B.S. That's how Rick actually works.
When he was making "Californication" with the Red Hot Chili Peppers, they meditated before every single session. Tom Petty? Same thing. Rick's bought meditation training for artists who needed it.
The guy figured out something most of us never do: real strength comes from being calm, not being loud.
We're told to hustle harder, talk louder, do more, be more. Rick went the opposite direction.
He strips everything down to what actually matters.
His production style? Minimalist as hell. No unnecessary layers. No fancy effects to hide behind. Just the song, naked and honest.
"We don't talk about what's going to get on the radio," Rick says. "We talk about how we make this song as good as it can be."
That's the difference right there.
Weak men make decisions based on what everyone else thinks. What's gonna sell. What's gonna get likes. What's gonna make them look good.
Strong men make decisions based on what's true.
Rick's built a quarter-billion-dollar career not by chasing trends, but by trusting something deeper. By having the balls to be patient when everyone else is rushing. By knowing when to do less instead of more.
Rick figured out that sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is sit still and listen.
The most effective men aren't the loudest ones in the room. They're the ones calm enough to see what everyone else is missing.
Next time you're feeling pressure to complicate things, to rush the process, to do what everyone expects instead of whats right — remember the bearded guy who changed music by trusting silence.
Strip away the B.S. Trust the process. Let the real thing emerge.
Live Brave. Live Bold. Live Bearded.
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