If You Don’t Change It, You Choose It | Bob Willett

Decide To Build a Life Worth Living

You ever have a moment where you realize... you’ve been doing it all wrong?

For most of his life, Bob Willett did everything the “right” way. Built a career in corporate sales. Provided for his family. Put three cars in the driveway and a basketball court in the backyard.

But somewhere along the way, he realized he was living someone else’s version of success - grinding 14-hour days for a job he didn’t love, while slowly losing connection with his wife, his kids, and himself.

At 35, burned out and exhausted, Bob made a choice. He walked away from the paycheck, the pressure, and the false sense of security - and built a life around what mattered most: his family, his faith, and his love for the game.

Don't miss the moment in this episode where Bob tells a story of the car ride that changed everything. One conversation with his son - raw, emotional, and vulnerable - that forced him to confront who he was becoming as a man. If you’re a dad, a husband, a coach, or a brother trying to do better… this one will hit you deep.

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