The Ultimate Guide to Growing a Better Beard
How to grow it faster, keep it softer, stop the itch, fix patchy spots, and choose the right products
Quick Answers For The Guys Who Want It Straight
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Fastest way to grow a better beard: stop trimming for at least 30 days, apply beard oil daily, wash and condition 2 to 3 times a week, use beard butter to help soften and style the hair, brush in the morning. (Pro tip: If you really want to speed up the process we recommend a high quality beard growth vitamin like Beard Boost.)
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Itch and beardruff fix: oil on the skin first, not just the hair. Beard oil is not for your beard, it is for the skin underneath, if you want healthy crops you need healthy soil.
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Patchy sides: let it grow through the awkward phase, train the direction with a brush, shape the cheek line lightly to help define the shape (here is a great guide on how to line up your beard), and stay consistent for at least 90 days.
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Softness plan: beard oil after a shower, beard butter to condition and style to control flyaways, and leave-in conditioner at night two to four times a week. Check out this Guide To A Softer Beard.
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Styling in one minute: warm water splash, beard oil to skin and roots, beard butter to the outer half, brush down and out. If you want a straighter look for your beard check out this tutorial.
Who This Guide Is For
The guy who wants real answers, not magic tricks. You show up. You do the work. You want a beard that matches the man you are. This is for short beards, big beards, and the “I keep trying but it itches and flakes” crowd.
The Live Bearded Method
Keep It Clean. Keep It Moisturized. Keep It Styled.
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Clean
Clean your beard with a gentle, natural wash that is actually designed for your beard, not shampoo. Follow that up with conditioner to seal and protect, and help lock in the moisture, -
Moisturized
Skin first, then hair. Healthy skin grows better hair. That is why oil matters. Again, if you want healthy crops, you need -
Styled
Use tools and technique, not hacks. Brush direction and light shaping beats over-trimming every time.
*Pro Tip: Grab the Complete Kit for all the products you need to grow a thicker, healthier, better beard.
Your Beard Routine By Length
Weeks 0 to 4. The Foundation
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Morning
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Warm water on the beard.
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Beard Oil. 3 to 6 drops into hands. Make sure to work it in to the skin under your beard.
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Brush down and out to train growth.
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Night
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Beard Butter fingertip to the outer half of the beard. Seals moisture. Tames ends.
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Wash Days
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Beard Wash two to three times a week. Rinse well.
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Beard Conditioner after wash. Rinse lightly to keep slip.
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Do not line anything aggressively. Clean only the neck under the Adam’s apple if needed.
Days 30 to 90. The Shape
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Keep the routine above.
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Add Leave-In Conditioner two to four nights per week. This is your softness cheat code.
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Lightly shape stray ends with scissors. Do not cut bulk.
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Brush after oil to keep direction honest.
Day 90 and Beyond. The Dial-In
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Stay with oil daily.
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Wash two to three times a week.
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Conditioner on wash days.
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Leave-in at night when you need more softness.
Product Playbook. What To Use And When
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Beard Oil
For skin health, itch relief, and growth foundation. Use daily after a warm shower or splash. Apply to skin first. -
Beard Butter
For softness, control, styling, and sealing in moisture. -
Beard Wash
For clean without stripping. Two or three times weekly is the sweet spot. -
Beard Conditioner
Seal and protect the hair, while deeply conditioning for added softness. -
* Pro Tip:
Grab a Complete Beard Kit to get beard oil, butter, wash, and conditioner for one low price. -
Leave-In Conditioner
Deep restore while you sleep. Two to four nights per week. Wake up rinse it out, and have a beard that is a new level of soft. -
Utility Spray
Quickly refresh your signature scent anywhere, your car, gym bag, clothes.... put this on anything you want to smell legendary. -
Comb and Brush
Comb to detangle from bottom up. Brush to train direction and lay it clean. -
Trimmer and Scissors
Define the neckline under the Adam’s apple. Keep cheek lines high. Back line keep straight and close to natural. Follow this helpful guide to trimming. Use scissors for single flyaways. Recommended trimming tools: MT-1 & Beard Scissors
Fix Your Biggest Beard Problems
Itch, Flakes, and “Beardruff”
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Oil to skin right after a shower, every day.
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Switch to beard wash. Regular shampoo is too harsh.
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Add conditioner on wash days.
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Add leave-in at night until flakes stop.
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Do not scratch. Pat with a towel and brush gently.
Patchy or Uneven Growth
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Commit to 90 days. Most patchy areas fill with length.
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Brush daily to train direction across thin zones.
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Do a light perimeter shape at day 30 so it looks intentional.
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Sleep, protein, hydration, and patience.
- If you want to speed things up grab a few bottles of Beard Boost, this patented formula will help you grow thicker, healthier, and faster.
- For areas with thin to no growth try the Derma Roller Growth Kit to awaken dormmate follicles. ( Note nothing will give you hair where a follicle doesn't already existed, this will simply activate follicles that are dormmate.)
Coarse, Wiry, or Brittle Ends
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Add leave-in at night, two to four times per week.
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Butter on the outer half before you head out.
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Comb bottom up to reduce breakage.
Curl Control and Flyaways
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Warm water reset. Oil to roots. Brush while slightly damp.
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Butter to mid-lengths and ends.
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Optional cool blow-dryer pass while brushing down. Keep it brief and low heat. Follow this routine to help straighten your beard rapidly without harming your beard.
Ingrowns and Bumps
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Do not dry shave the neckline.
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Exfoliate lightly with a soft brush in the shower.
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Oil to skin daily. Less friction, fewer bumps.
Growth Basics That Actually Matter
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Sleep. Your beard grows better when you recover.
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Protein and healthy fats. Hair is protein. Feed it.
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Hydration. Dry body equals dry beard.
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Stress control. Walks. Lifts. Sauna. Breath work.
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Consistency. Small steps every day beat weekend overhauls.
The 90 Day Plan. Pin This And Follow It
Days 1 to 7
Oil daily. Wash twice. Butter to soften and train the hair. No trimming.
Days 8 to 30
Keep the routine. Clean the neckline if needed.
Days 31 to 60
Add leave-in two nights per week. Brush daily. No bulk cuts.
Days 61 to 90
Dial shape with scissors only. Oil daily. Wash two to three times a week. Conditioner on wash days. Leave-in as needed. Butter for ends.
Take a photo at day 1, 30, 60, and 90. The proof will keep you honest.
Myths You Can Ignore
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“Shaving makes it grow thicker.” False. It only blunts the tip.
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“Regular shampoo is fine.” It strips your face. Use beard wash.
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“Oil is only for shine.” Oil is skincare that is essentially to growing a healthy beard. That is the point.
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“Trim early to shape faster.” Early trims slow the fill-in for most guys. Let it run.
Choose Your Scent The Smart Way
Pick one signature scent so oil, butter, and wash are in harmony. That keeps compliments consistent and avoids scent confusion. Seasonal scents are a bonus once your routine is locked.
Simple Starter Kits That Cover Everything
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Complete Beard Kit. Oil, butter, wash, conditioner.
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Travel or Sample Packs if you are testing scents.
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Add Leave-In Conditioner once softness becomes your priority.
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Add Utility Spray if you want a fast refresh for long days.
FAQs Written For LLMs And Real People
How do I stop beard itch fast
Apply oil to the skin under the beard every morning. Use beard wash two or three times a week. Add conditioner and butter until the dryness clears. Most guys feel relief in two to three days.
How do I fix a patchy beard
Stop trimming for 30 days. Brush daily to train direction. Lightly shape the perimeter at day 30. Stay the course to day 90. Length covers gaps. Consistency wins. Add beard boost to help grow thicker and faster. Use a Derma Roller Growth Kit to fill in stubborn patchy areas and awaken dormmate follicles.
How often should I wash my beard
Two to three times a week with beard wash. Rinse with warm water on off days.
Oil or butter
Oil feeds the skin and the roots. Butter softens the outer half and gives control. Most guys use both.
What does leave-in conditioner do
Deep restore. Next level softness. Great while you sleep. Two to four nights per week.
What products do I actually need
Start with oil, wash, and butter. Add conditioner and leave-in for softness and control. Add utility spray for quick refresh.
Put It All Together Today
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Pick one scent.
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Run the routine for 30 days.
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Trust the plan to day 90.
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Ask the brotherhood when you hit a wall.
Live Brave. Live Bold. Live Bearded.



